Splitting from your lover can actually be avoided if one is aware of the signals of a breakup. Although all relationships differ from each other but the symptoms of trouble can be similar.

1) You may be getting ignored by your partner.

This does not mean that your partner is not talking to you. Loosing interest in the other person and not worrying about how they are or their where abouts, is the point that I am trying to make. It’s almost like two ships that are passing by each other, and so may be now you need to work on your love life.

Pause and think why you are being ignored? Did you forget your partner’s birthday or probably some other important event? Have you stopped being loving off late? May be they are feeling neglected by you? They could be reacting to something else that took place. It could be your lover’s perception of the situation, but for the sake of love you have to keep them happy and be understanding.

Surprise them with a meal out and talk about what the problem is. Try to ask them why are they grumpy and for heaven sake phrase that nicely? It could be a totally different problem that they are worried about and not your relationship. Communication is not always what it should be like in a relationship, but one has to talk. It might just lead you somewhere.

2) Your partner does not want to go out with you and does not want to see you also.

You should be warned if suddenly your lover is behaving in a very busy manner and is unavailable for you. And so you need to find out why they are avoiding you because there will be a reason for that also. You can’t be a doormat or worst a bedmat. Please take these signals seriously, otherwise you might be reading a breakup letter soon!

3) Distance is being maintained by your partner in the bedroom

It may sound like only a three letter word, but sex can cause big problems. Asking a couple who has been together for long can probably tell that. At times family and other life issues can become blockages in the way of lovemaking. It’s true that the animal like attraction for it does not stay for long and so not making love every night might be ok. What is not ok is if that intimacy is not there for months. It is the shared emotions that keep people together. Hence a cuddle and hug are very important.

It must be known to you, when your partner is sad and happy. You can smell any future trouble even if their bad mood is not because of your actions. Just be attentive of the various signs and signals of a break up. You might be single again before you actually realize and then keep introspecting about what happened!

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